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Piper3654K 53M
141 posts
1/10/2022 11:00 am

Is there drama here between bloggers? If so, why? Is there monetary reward for being the top blogger?

I guess I don't know what I don't know.


GhostofH 65M
22788 posts
1/10/2022 11:07 am

Your responses to comments, whether you use the 'Quote' format or option or merely use 'Respond' or if you even just make a comment yourself, does NOT count towards the total. Only comments by others, and only ONE comment per person per post is counted towards the total. That's what happens on my blog.


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
1/10/2022 11:19 am

I go both ways. Occasionally I'll quote and other times I'll comment.

If people are leaving long remarks on my post, then commenting is neater for everyone else, to follow, than a quote. I'll also comment when I want to get more personal with a reply. I find it's more intimate... lol 😂 😮

I will enjoy how simple and clean it will be on that NEW site.
😎❗❗


Suprcuk49 63M
257 posts
1/10/2022 11:22 am

I think doing a response with the quote is the best. Haters can't deny what they put in type or photos attached. It's too bad when a few haters can't get just get on with life and their own business.


MisterXTC1000 59M
367 posts
1/10/2022 12:11 pm

No one really looks at my blog LOL


synergy7002 56M
20 posts
1/10/2022 12:22 pm

IT's a moot point because in the new community there will be no more of any of this..so best just to let it go as there is nothing to be gained.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
1/10/2022 12:34 pm

I quote as my response is then attached to the opriginal comment; it makes more sense that way.
I don't think quoting or responding, or not, makes any difference to one's standing in the lists.


leefury7 73M

1/10/2022 1:14 pm

I do not believe I have ever quoted. I respond. Never gave it much thought.


1golfpro7 65M
131 posts
1/10/2022 1:18 pm

If something really good....it is nice to Quote the Author....if you know what I mean at least until I can see her in person


LadiesR2B1rst 60M  
2735 posts
1/10/2022 1:59 pm

Post whatever you want to. Never let anyone "Bullie" you or change you in any way. Thanks for posting this topic.


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
1/10/2022 2:26 pm

"Respond... Comment" — I should have said Respond; we're into semantics? You knew what I meant.

And hey... knock yourself out about giving flying figs and caring about neatness; your blog, your space.

A quote counts as two and numbers are important for some. That NEW site doesn't play games.
You're not lecturing a newbie FFS. 😎❗❗


CarpeJamie 54M
289 posts
1/10/2022 2:59 pm

I mostly use the respond feature because I like that the person's profile pic is attached to the post. This makes it a more intimate feel I think. Although I have also been trying the quote feature to see what the difference is and which I like more. It also seems to have an impact on the new beta version -- so I'm still playing with it. I'm not really a fan of the limited choice in the beta version.

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Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
1/10/2022 4:30 pm

    Quoting spunkycumfun:
    I quote as my response is then attached to the opriginal comment; it makes more sense that way.
    I don't think quoting or responding, or not, makes any difference to one's standing in the lists.
'Responding', will attach your reply in the same way. Visit my last bunch of posts and you'll see what it looks like. Looks fine.

QUOTING, produces TWO comments which the current A F F algorithm, then uses to ADD to a blogger's standing onto those famous lists.

If I RESPOND to a visitor's comment on my blog — my post will show ONE comment.

If I QUOTE that person's remark — my post will show TWO comments.

It's games people here play, to ply their way to the top of that Leaderboard.

Three recent blog posts I've put out, have attracted more than sixty something UNIQUE comments. If I'd wanted to BOOST my numbers and clamber up that blog list — and QUOTED those remarks — I would have been given credit for more than a hundred and twenty comments.

Games... people... play... 😊

The NEW site only accepts a REPLY and treats it as ONE comment — regardless of the back and forth that might go on.

That NEW site has glitches but it'll clear out bullshit. Popularity... is a state of mind measured in smokey numbers.

Check out that guy on the 'Most Popular Blog' posts. He's commented on his OWN blog a hundreds of times. 😎 ❗ ❗

Loved your interview with that ass who's smart, today. 👍


scc1965 58M

1/10/2022 6:40 pm

I usually use the quote....as I like to see what I am responding to. Also I can go to see where I am quoted and seeif there is a response easily.


PonyGirl1965 58F
22090 posts
1/10/2022 7:35 pm

I click respond. My comment is then nested in the same box as theirs.


DeInSLC 59F
84 posts
1/10/2022 8:05 pm

I think I use Quote, but may have used Respond also in the past. I don't believe I've tried Add a comment, though.

Many times, when the blogger uses the What do you think? option, I will click on Agree, Neutral, or Disagree rather than leave a comment.


lok4fun500 M
51906 posts
1/10/2022 9:55 pm

I respond 99.99999% on my posts. I only quote if I want to include an image as NO images allowed in a respond!
I don't care about lists and numbers.


anastasia666 46F
2231 posts
1/10/2022 11:23 pm

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Joy,

Happy Monday Night / Tues more to you My Twin I thought I'd add my 2 cents on this topic..I had written a post years back and wrote a reply to a woman's reply to my blog..She came back again and asked that instead of replying could I please hit the quote reply ..She said something about points etc. I was happy to do that and make her happy. Ever since then I have quoted those who go to my blog and take the time to not only read it but to reply to it.

It is just being respectful to our readers..

Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


MrWrong4RghtNow 57M
2439 posts
1/10/2022 11:31 pm

I just click whatever works. I've found that people who accuse others of wrongdoing are usually guilty themselves. Like a cheater thinking everyone cheats or a thief thinking everyone steals.
In the end it doesn't really matter what anyone else says as long as you're confident in your actions. I only care when the people I love or respect say something about me.

You can quote me on that.

My name is MrWrong and I approved this comment


fang070 53M
1309 posts
1/11/2022 1:04 am

For me the main option is to quote because the person you are reponding is somehow noticed of your reply when they check the "Where I'm quoted" section, which helps to identify when a comment is replied and eases to come back to an old post

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spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
1/11/2022 1:22 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    'Responding', will attach your reply in the same way. Visit my last bunch of posts and you'll see what it looks like. Looks fine.

    QUOTING, produces TWO comments which the current A F F algorithm, then uses to ADD to a blogger's standing onto those famous lists.

    If I RESPOND to a visitor's comment on my blog — my post will show ONE comment.

    If I QUOTE that person's remark — my post will show TWO comments.

    It's games people here play, to ply their way to the top of that Leaderboard.

    Three recent blog posts I've put out, have attracted more than sixty something UNIQUE comments. If I'd wanted to BOOST my numbers and clamber up that blog list — and QUOTED those remarks — I would have been given credit for more than a hundred and twenty comments.

    Games... people... play... 😊

    The NEW site only accepts a REPLY and treats it as ONE comment — regardless of the back and forth that might go on.

    That NEW site has glitches but it'll clear out bullshit. Popularity... is a state of mind measured in smokey numbers.

    Check out that guy on the 'Most Popular Blog' posts. He's commented on his OWN blog a hundreds of times. 😎 ❗ ❗

    Loved your interview with that ass who's smart, today. 👍
Thanks for correcting me. I didn't realise it made any difference. It's good the new format's algorithm iis ignoring these niceties.
I've seen that blogger; he has some incredible conversations with himself!


easyrider4008 67M
2562 posts
1/11/2022 2:06 am

I don't really think I am qualified to comment on this other than to say if one responds to a lot of blogs it is useful to see the quote as a reminder . xoxo


nsnguystill 71M
428 posts
1/11/2022 2:35 am

i does what i do because i am moved to do so, but mostly i reply. sometimes i quote
but i never count, because in the end
it really does not count
bonne vie

there is a world of difference between insane and stupid


Unzipmeslowly51x 54M

1/11/2022 3:43 am

    Quoting  :

I quote if its someone i chat to often. If its just a one off comment on someones blog i usually just reply😊x


DanielZwat1950 74M  
436 posts
1/11/2022 4:26 am

    Quoting  :

All that is above my pay grade! I always quote so I have a reference while replying.


justskin1 72M
13175 posts
1/11/2022 8:18 am

I usually hit Response but sometimes will do Quote as that makes it easier to do a comments thread. As for how views and comments are tallied on this site I am clueless. Especially about the Views. Anyone else have a clue? It does seem the older the post the more views tallied and I doubt it has anything to do with a courser flashing over the post.

If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin."

I always behave. Preferably not well.


scoupe42 60M

1/11/2022 8:20 am

There's times when I'm on and see a blog a friend post, so I view. Then later that friend might had thrown in another,who knows? Then there a stretch when several people might have multiple blogs at once, so when some one get back on that friend's blog off the radar. My friend, you got a lot of views on all our blogs, when I view , I see that you get probably most views on your than many people! There are so many daily bloggers on here, many, many, many! So a blog or two might be bumped. You express what on your mind, or your views on things. As a writer or a blogger, I said a million times, you not going to please all of the people all of the time! So we just be pleased, to pleased some of the people some of the time!


chrissy20073 65T
315 posts
1/11/2022 8:50 am

i never though that it really mattered i normally use respond


OpenmindedinY 49M
188 posts
1/11/2022 2:18 pm

Hey sweetie, not sure how to answer other then, for the most point couldn't careless sabot bloggers, rarely comment in the general sense. I like to reposed to you cause we have a common interested in each other but also you have good blogs its not just alway sexual or what have you not but some cool interesting signs and also signs about you, your likes, dislikes, important things as well too. So i enjoy commenting on yours at times and building a connection and chemistry. others respond for different trepans too, as you mention some will try to boost them selves so that sup to the followers of that blogger to see and catch those things. I didn't even know you could dot hat and so forth. I choose to respond to whom ver when ever but its rare lol i like and choose to do sow tis you cause i think its worth it and work getting to know you and connecting with you and its good to alls respond to good topics and or get thing out there too As always you seem to make good points or ask good ?s and make good c,moments and then theres the fun aspect of you too when it comes to the sexual aspect of things too. xo


justskin1 72M
13175 posts
1/12/2022 8:14 am

    Quoting  :

What puzzles me is how high the tally goes on old old blogs and that it keeps rising.
Makes it look like some are checking all of the posts.

If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin."

I always behave. Preferably not well.


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