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The older woman's body  

FitDaddy71 64M
8 posts
1/11/2021 12:44 pm
The older woman's body
I saw an article the other day about how rarely, if ever, men consider what women go through when having a baby. How it affects her body for 9 months and then the changes that remain afterwards. Most men know about the mood swings and sleeping habits changing. However, there are also other things, such as tooth decay, bone density loss, stretched skin that doesn't always go back, especially after multiple births, etc. And then there is the delivery itself. It is stressful and dangerous both to the mother as well as the .

Afterwards there are varying degrees of weight gain, tummy stretch, hair loss in one area and hair gain in others. For some women they easily get back being fit and trim while others are physically prone obesity and low self-esteem. I have always said the hardest job in the world is being a single mother. All that is involved in that out coupled with the physical and mental drama she had/has deal with just the pregnancy.

These are not issues with me. Battle scars are nothingto be ashamed of. Not everyone is going fit into a size 7 dress after having . Things are going sag a little more. But that doesnt mean she is less beautiful, less attractive, less alluring. Personally as I have matured, so have my tastes. Maturing involves the ability discern the difference between what looks go and what actually is good. Not all that glitters is of gold!

dpguy1957 67M  
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501 posts
1/11/2021 7:59 pm

 well written and stated


FitDaddy71 64M
178 posts
1/11/2021 7:18 pm

 I hate that Yenta.com constantly edits what you post, taking out certain words like *me*.


flannel_light 61F
4586 posts
1/11/2021 6:21 pm

 Thank you for saying this. Us women to go through a lot after childbirth.
The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness.


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