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There are so many morsels to be savored from romance....smell,taste,imagination, give, receive, tingle and the numerous other senses that go into making romance one of the most wonderful and misunderstood occurrences in life. Let's pontificate on this wonderfully aspect of our being.
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Fear
Posted:Oct 17, 2021 6:10 am
Last Updated:Oct 17, 2021 2:49 pm
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We all have had fear in our lives....fear of: the dark, monsters under the bed, mean old Mr. Miller, first grade, going blind from masturbation, shots from the doctor, peer acceptance, and many other maladies. Maturation has vanquished some of these fears but there are some that linger and change your lifestyle. Fear is also the biggest deterrent for great romance... fear of: heart break, looking the fool, mental prow-less, physical features, true love, compatibility, what you look like with the lights on, and every other excuse known to mankind. There is an old saying that goes something like this... all we have to fear is fear itself. So there are no excuses in romance because you are afraid of something. Go enjoy every aspect of romance and not be afraid of anything....including what you think of your internal self or what you perceive other people think. You never know what you are missing if you are afraid to try it.
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Fall, fences and Bob Dylan
Posted:Oct 7, 2021 6:57 am
Last Updated:Oct 17, 2021 2:49 pm
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We all have built fences around areas of our personality, these are areas we do not to show to other people...much less even let them know they exist. There is a physio dynamics study of how people erect these fences for self protection and to keep their true feelings hidden. Most of the readers here think they are liberated and the gate is wide open to their fence....oh silly people. We just sit on the fence and throw and censored bits of our soul out for consumption and consider ourselves open minded people. Let's do some fall cleaning and throw out some of our hang-ups about romance and display some of that forbidden fruit hidden on the other side of the fence. You can't ride that fence forever, jump off and get your knees stained with grass.....and enjoy yourself. As Bob Dylan sings[ by the way, is turning 76] the times they are a changing.... if he can change, you can too.
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bucket lists
Posted:Sep 27, 2021 5:27 am
Last Updated:Oct 17, 2021 2:49 pm
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We have all heard of the Bucket List, brought more recently to our attention by the movie of the same name. Well, there should be a Bucket List of romance with a little understanding added to the process. We all have wishes and fantasy that we dream about in our romantic endeavors, no better time than right now on checking them off the list. Most of the items on the list will not be as satisfying as thought but the collateral enjoyment of that fantasy will go beyond your wildest dreams. So go out there and start marking items off the list while you can still enjoy the ramifications of the actions.
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entitled ones
Posted:Sep 15, 2021 5:55 am
Last Updated:Oct 17, 2021 2:49 pm
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No, this is not referring to the entitled generation or a socioeconomic status. It is referring to one of the biggest killers of good romance, and the thought that everyone is entitled to good and lasting romance that they don't have to work for it. There is a saying a wise man once said[ ok ok, it was me]...you only get out of romance what you put into it. Boys and girls, you got to work at romance.....being witty and cute opens lots of doors but you can't rest on those laurels or slowly you are moved out the door. The same position and no creativity and adventure puts rust on the romance. So oil up all your toys and mind and go work at having fun..... and people wonder why you don't get invited back to the playground. Hmmm
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Lover Of Life
Posted:Sep 3, 2021 6:01 am
Last Updated:Oct 17, 2021 2:49 pm
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I was listening to a song the other day and it had a line that went.... and I am a lover of life. Now if we take that line and add it to the nuances of romance, wow..... that is a great combination. If you are a lover of life, then you got to be a connoisseur of romance. They both go hand in hand with each other in that.... romance is to be enjoyed and if you love life, it just brings it to a new level. TGIT my friends and go out and be a lover of life and sample all the nuances of romance.
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If it ain't broke....
Posted:Aug 24, 2021 5:47 am
Last Updated:Oct 17, 2021 2:49 pm
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Jimmy Buffett keeps touring , adding a few new songs with the old..... if it is still working for him, me too.

JB did a song a few years back called" Attitudes and Latitudes" and you can really apply this to romance. There is also a business and sociological term called the Pendulum Effect, combine both of these and you have a remedy for good romance and a more enjoyable life. You have to have a change in routine and life every once in a while....just to appreciate what you have or to realize what you are missing. I do not know whether this is from laziness or fear of the unknown, but damn it.....shake things up a little and enjoy romance and life with a different perspective.

BTW...he does a version of Jesse Winchester's Rhumba Man which is one of my all time favorites in any genre.
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Six Degrees
Posted:Aug 16, 2021 5:24 am
Last Updated:Oct 17, 2021 2:49 pm
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There is always six degrees of separation on everything, even romance. There are connections all over the place and they are all heading toward the same destination. The problem here is that most people believe that there is only one avenue to use getting to your destination....oh, how silly and sad. Romance and satisfaction can be attained and connected within six degrees...as long as you keep connecting. A kiss maybe brings connection, whether it be on different sets of lips or a nipple. A simple smile may make the whole connection to romance, the fact is that you can't have preconceived notions on romance ....you have to just keep connecting the degrees of separation until you are happy and satisfied
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Realization
Posted:Aug 10, 2021 1:10 pm
Last Updated:Aug 11, 2021 5:30 am
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Ok... , My readers are not here to answer my questions and think that I am cute...they are here to hear me pontificate upon the nuances of romance.... I get I get it, so here is a rant on.... you got it. Comfort Zone.

Yes, we all have our comfort zones and routines... from chicken on Friday, bowling on Tuesday, brushing your teeth starting on the right side, sleeping on left side of the bed, missionary style sex on Sunday and oral on Tuesday, same friends and same jokes on Friday. Now don't get me wrong, comfort zones are essential and helps life move on....but don't get lazy and carried away with it. Why are spontaneous occurrences so fun and memorable, why did that flirtatious look make your day, why are dreams centered around far away places and exotic people....it is because it take you out of your routine and comfort zone. You knew I was getting here.....So, take romance out of that comfort zone. Be it just for a test drive, small vacation or a complete overhaul. Life is too short not to paint outside the line to see if you enjoy it and what it looks like
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three part harmony
Posted:Jul 31, 2021 5:51 am
Last Updated:Oct 17, 2021 2:49 pm
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I was getting a massage the other day and the masseuse told me when she finished up....take a deep breath and be at peace with your body, mind and soul. Now with my normal sensual thought pattern... realized this would relate very much to the nuances of romance. Romance and sensuality is not complete if your body , mind and soul have not bought into the process. Yes, it is ok to work with one or two of them but to really enjoy the experience.....you need all three Body, Mind Soul. Now go enjoy.
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Old school BDSM
Posted:Jul 19, 2021 5:37 am
Last Updated:Jul 28, 2021 12:53 pm
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Yes, you most definitely will get your mouth washed out with soap according to Nuances Of Romance bylaws....if you ever say: I would have, I could have, I should have. There are no excuses in romance, like ...I am too tired, the timing is not right, I feel fat, or whatever comes to mind. Romance does not knock on your door and drag you out... it does knock but you have to drag it inside. So get ready for the knock....and no damn excuses.... like: I would have, I could have, I should have. It is adventure time, cut it loose and have some fun.
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Wine and thoughts of romance
Posted:Jul 12, 2021 6:42 am
Last Updated:Oct 17, 2021 2:49 pm
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I just got my wine of the month shipment and of course..... started thinking how wine and romance co-mingle. No.... it is not getting your partner drunk but the actual making of the wine.

Making love can be compared to making wine, You take your partner[grape] and smell, caress, taste, savior and gently touch all over. Then when the partner is ripe and pushing its skin to the limit with juices and the desire to share its bounty, you slowly start removing those juices and savoring each delicate drop. You can become completely intoxicated by the smell, taste and consumption of these juices. Like wine, love making should be enjoyed over a relaxing time frame and not guzzled.
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July 4th..... nuances
Posted:Jul 4, 2021 8:58 am
Last Updated:Jul 5, 2021 5:35 am
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Ok, between hotdogs and fireworks, take some time to think upon the nuances of romance...... We all have a gene that makes us want to be happy....but so many people are too lazy to let that gene work to its full capabilities. Being lazy is:
1. Letting self consciousness ruin what should flow naturally.
2. Jealousy
3. Not acting on an impulse and going with the norm.
4. Thinking you are not worthy of enjoying life.
5. Allowing distractions take away your rights to enjoy life.

That is enough soap box this morning, I am 50 plus and enjoying and understanding life and romance more than the previous half century. Damn, I was a slow learner but I am sure enjoying the post graduate courses now. Tomorrow is deja vu all over again......
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Summer thoughts on oral sex
Posted:Jun 21, 2021 5:13 am
Last Updated:Oct 17, 2021 2:49 pm
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It is a great start to summer Monday morning and I am sipping coffee and trying figure out the world of romance. One thing that comes to mind is ... why do people always say they perform oral sex in a world class fashion... now, this is both genders. Oral sex is a very personal part of romance and everybody enjoys different aspects and techniques.... so how can someone proclaim that they give the best oral sex... HMMM. BTW... The women that have told me they gave the best blow jobs very seldom lived up to their billing, and I would imagine that ratio is even worst with guys.... OK... back to daydreaming...
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