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Cancer Sucks  

sexyldy1000 61F  
10214 posts
9/25/2021 8:02 pm
Cancer Sucks




One in two people will develop cancer. Scary statistics!

I am heartbroken, trying to process the bad news I received earlier tonight.

I found that one of my best and long-time friends has been diagnosed with her third type of cancer. She's been through breast cancer, subsequently diagnosed with bone cancer and now brain cancer. She's already had brain surgery and has a long road ahead. She is one of the strongest people I know and has faced her cancer journey with grace and dignity.

Please don't take life for granted. It can be snatched from you in the blink of an eye.




Stimulate my mind and let’s see what happens 😊.
Lest We Forget


sexyldy1000 61F  
9360 posts
9/25/2021 8:03 pm

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Stimulate my mind and let’s see what happens 😊.
Lest We Forget


OttawaMan43sum 50M
2218 posts
9/25/2021 8:31 pm

I'm very sorry to hear about your friend. It sounds like she's a fighter so here's hoping that she will be up for this fight as well.


flannel_light 59F  
4221 posts
9/25/2021 9:11 pm

I amxso very sorry for you and your friend. You both will be in my prayers.

The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness.


ltrskr 73M  
5068 posts
9/26/2021 2:05 am

There were 6 of us, me and five sisters! If u asked any of us who our favorite was, it was Jackie. She always had long black hair, past her waist, drove a 73 Pontiac Bonneville convertible, 40 degrees, top down, her hair to the wind!
We teased her with a "Dumb Blonde" with black hair, kind of ditzy, but a computer for a brain and would give u the shirt off her back!
She taught me to dance and tie a tie.
We lost her to breast cancer in 2004, she was 57. Her biggest upset was loosing her hair, it came back but never the same!
A few years ago I discovered "Wig for Kids" I let my hair grow past my shoulders and donated it in her name.
My prayers are with you and your friend, God Bless!


spunkycumfun 61M/66F  
39485 posts
9/26/2021 2:08 am

I'm sorry to hear of the sad news of your best friend.


Paulxx001 64M  
21958 posts
9/26/2021 6:10 am

My prayers are with your friend. She is a fighter. ❗❗


MyBaffies 52M
4883 posts
9/26/2021 6:16 am

Wishing the best possible outcome to your friend.

Lost two cousins to cancer this year. And one of those cousins lost his twin sister to cancer 20 years ago. As you say, it touches just about everyone.

Baffies

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magic97206 73M
100 posts
9/26/2021 6:53 am

I agree with you a very nasty disease: My Sweetie developed pancreatic cancer and it wasn't found until it was already 4th stage. She fought it with the known resources and lasted 10 months. I pray one day a CURE will be found for all cancers. I wish the best for you and your dear friend. Rj


Tmptrzz 59F  
104421 posts
9/26/2021 8:56 am

I am so sorry to hear about your friend, I will be keeping her in my prayers. I know my grandsons dad died when he was eight years old from brain cancer, so I know what she has gone through. I pray that she will make a full recovery..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


itisi64 57M
70 posts
9/26/2021 10:23 am

So sorry to hear about your friend. Have known and lost way too many friends to various forms of this disease. My thoughts and best wishes to you and your friend.


69ereatwetpussy 59M
6233 posts
9/26/2021 11:17 am

Cancer Sucks
My mom ,her sister
Their Aunts
I have friends my age I worked with
Hunted fished with gone to soon.
It's been around for so long
We understand only some
Other none
Our Neighbor had battle it for 6 years
We miss her so we did not get to enjoy
Her as a healthy woman we know when we first move up here.
Now my hunting partner move up here
Had throat cancer then a bad stroke
Now going for more test after they removed his goal blatter found a growth inside.


iraduu 41M
3519 posts
9/26/2021 5:09 pm

issi e muito chatodoença fudida


Erogedyne 69M
961 posts
9/27/2021 2:36 am

Sorry to hear about your friend. Just keep in mind that there are also good outcomes with cancer. I have been cancer free for three years following my bout with the disease. Hopefully your friend will have a similar result!


pocogato12 69F  
36947 posts
9/27/2021 1:45 pm

I read this with sorrow for you and your friend. All I can say it FIGHT as hard as you can. Sending hugs and all good wishes

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resant78 43M  
3301 posts
9/27/2021 6:23 pm

I'm very sorry to hear about your friend. She is stronger than most!
hugs to you my friend!!


p1947q 74M  
138 posts
9/28/2021 5:13 pm

I have experience with cancer in friends and family and to have seen the toll it takes on the patient and those around them. Thoughts and prayers of her and everyone in her circle


sexyldy1000 61F  
9360 posts
10/1/2021 6:02 pm

    Quoting OttawaMan43sum:
    I'm very sorry to hear about your friend. It sounds like she's a fighter so here's hoping that she will be up for this fight as well.
Thank you for your kind words. Yes, she has been a fighter up to now and I don't envision that changing.

Stimulate my mind and let’s see what happens 😊.
Lest We Forget


sexyldy1000 61F  
9360 posts
10/1/2021 6:04 pm

    Quoting  :

I previously lost an uncle to brain cancer so I know how aggressive it can be.
Sorry to hear of your loss. Cancer is far-reaching. My friend is a fighter and I hope and pray she will get through this.

Stimulate my mind and let’s see what happens 😊.
Lest We Forget


sexyldy1000 61F  
9360 posts
10/1/2021 6:06 pm

    Quoting flannel_light:
    I amxso very sorry for you and your friend. You both will be in my prayers.
Thank you for your kind words. Positive thoughts and prayers are always appreciated.

Stimulate my mind and let’s see what happens 😊.
Lest We Forget


sexyldy1000 61F  
9360 posts
10/1/2021 6:14 pm

    Quoting ltrskr:
    There were 6 of us, me and five sisters! If u asked any of us who our favorite was, it was Jackie. She always had long black hair, past her waist, drove a 73 Pontiac Bonneville convertible, 40 degrees, top down, her hair to the wind!
    We teased her with a "Dumb Blonde" with black hair, kind of ditzy, but a computer for a brain and would give u the shirt off her back!
    She taught me to dance and tie a tie.
    We lost her to breast cancer in 2004, she was 57. Her biggest upset was loosing her hair, it came back but never the same!
    A few years ago I discovered "Wig for Kids" I let my hair grow past my shoulders and donated it in her name.
    My prayers are with you and your friend, God Bless!
Thank you for sharing your personal experience. There are several great organizations that accept hair to make wigs for adults and children. My daughter has donated her for such a cause. When my friend was diagnosed with bone cancer, I went with her to pick out a wig and as a surprise, brought one for her that I had which she gratefully accepted. Prayers and positive thoughts are gratefully accepted.

Stimulate my mind and let’s see what happens 😊.
Lest We Forget


sexyldy1000 61F  
9360 posts
10/1/2021 6:14 pm

    Quoting spunkycumfun:
    I'm sorry to hear of the sad news of your best friend.
Thank you. I do appreciate your kind words.

Stimulate my mind and let’s see what happens 😊.
Lest We Forget


sexyldy1000 61F  
9360 posts
10/1/2021 6:15 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    My prayers are with your friend. She is a fighter. ❗❗
Yes, she has been and I don't envision that changing. All prayers are appreciated and do make a difference.

Stimulate my mind and let’s see what happens 😊.
Lest We Forget


sexyldy1000 61F  
9360 posts
10/1/2021 6:17 pm

    Quoting MyBaffies:
    Wishing the best possible outcome to your friend.

    Lost two cousins to cancer this year. And one of those cousins lost his twin sister to cancer 20 years ago. As you say, it touches just about everyone.
I am sorry for your loss. The statistics are pretty overwhelming. Thank you for your good wishes. They are appreciated.

Stimulate my mind and let’s see what happens 😊.
Lest We Forget


sexyldy1000 61F  
9360 posts
10/1/2021 6:21 pm

    Quoting magic97206:
    I agree with you a very nasty disease: My Sweetie developed pancreatic cancer and it wasn't found until it was already 4th stage. She fought it with the known resources and lasted 10 months. I pray one day a CURE will be found for all cancers. I wish the best for you and your dear friend. Rj
I am sorry for your loss. I know pancreatic cancer is one of the really tough ones. Your best wishes are truly appreciated.

Stimulate my mind and let’s see what happens 😊.
Lest We Forget


sexyldy1000 61F  
9360 posts
10/1/2021 6:23 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    I am so sorry to hear about your friend, I will be keeping her in my prayers. I know my grandsons dad died when he was eight years old from brain cancer, so I know what she has gone through. I pray that she will make a full recovery..
I know brain cancer is one of the really tough ones. I lost an uncle to it. My friend has been through so much and I hope and pray she can overcome this one.

Stimulate my mind and let’s see what happens 😊.
Lest We Forget


sexyldy1000 61F  
9360 posts
10/1/2021 6:25 pm

    Quoting 69ereatwetpussy:
    Cancer Sucks
    My mom ,her sister
    Their Aunts
    I have friends my age I worked with
    Hunted fished with gone to soon.
    It's been around for so long
    We understand only some
    Other none
    Our Neighbor had battle it for 6 years
    We miss her so we did not get to enjoy
    Her as a healthy woman we know when we first move up here.
    Now my hunting partner move up here
    Had throat cancer then a bad stroke
    Now going for more test after they removed his goal blatter found a growth inside.
Now, it's rare to know someone who hasn't been touched by cancer.

Stimulate my mind and let’s see what happens 😊.
Lest We Forget


sexyldy1000 61F  
9360 posts
10/1/2021 6:25 pm

    Quoting iraduu:
    issi e muito chatodoença fudida
I am sorry but I don't understand what you have commented.

Stimulate my mind and let’s see what happens 😊.
Lest We Forget


sexyldy1000 61F  
9360 posts
10/1/2021 6:28 pm

    Quoting Erogedyne:
    Sorry to hear about your friend. Just keep in mind that there are also good outcomes with cancer. I have been cancer free for three years following my bout with the disease. Hopefully your friend will have a similar result!
Congratulations on being in remission!
Yes, I am well aware there can be a variety of outcomes. My friend has already been through so much. Bone cancer and brain cancer are amongst the toughest ones. Positive thoughts and prayers are helpful.

Stimulate my mind and let’s see what happens 😊.
Lest We Forget


sexyldy1000 61F  
9360 posts
10/1/2021 6:30 pm

    Quoting pocogato12:
    I read this with sorrow for you and your friend. All I can say it FIGHT as hard as you can. Sending hugs and all good wishes
I knew you would understand. I am waiting for an update. In the meantime, I am overloading her with positive vibes and prayers.

Stimulate my mind and let’s see what happens 😊.
Lest We Forget


sexyldy1000 61F  
9360 posts
10/1/2021 6:32 pm

    Quoting resant78:
    I'm very sorry to hear about your friend. She is stronger than most!
    hugs to you my friend!!
Yes, she certainly is strong. I pray that she can keep it up. Thank you for your kind words and support.

Stimulate my mind and let’s see what happens 😊.
Lest We Forget


sexyldy1000 61F  
9360 posts
10/1/2021 6:35 pm

    Quoting p1947q:
    I have experience with cancer in friends and family and to have seen the toll it takes on the patient and those around them. Thoughts and prayers of her and everyone in her circle
I have first-hand experience with it and understand exactly what you mean about the toll it can have on those supporting the patient. Thank you for your kind words and prayers. They mean the world to me.

Stimulate my mind and let’s see what happens 😊.
Lest We Forget


Erogedyne 69M
961 posts
10/1/2021 7:37 pm

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    Congratulations on being in remission!
    Yes, I am well aware there can be a variety of outcomes. My friend has already been through so much. Bone cancer and brain cancer are amongst the toughest ones. Positive thoughts and prayers are helpful.
I will pray & keep positive thoughts for your friend.


sexyldy1000 61F  
9360 posts
10/2/2021 2:44 am

    Quoting Erogedyne:
    I will pray & keep positive thoughts for your friend.
Thank you 🙏. I am waiting for an update on how she is doing.

Stimulate my mind and let’s see what happens 😊.
Lest We Forget


mikezigi 50M
6 posts
10/4/2021 9:41 am

Live each day to the fullest, appreciate everything you see, touch and love


just4funinMT20 91M

10/4/2021 1:11 pm

Sorry to hear this. I know of many people, friends and acquaintances, who have fought this awful disease. Some beat it, some don't.


just4funinMT20 91M

10/4/2021 1:27 pm

Brain cancer is particularly bad. I do know of some new treatment that is just around the corner, but it has yet to be approved.


sexyldy1000 61F  
9360 posts
10/14/2021 12:29 pm

    Quoting mikezigi:
    Live each day to the fullest, appreciate everything you see, touch and love
That is a great mantra to live by and one I embraced a long time ago 😊

Stimulate my mind and let’s see what happens 😊.
Lest We Forget


sexyldy1000 61F  
9360 posts
10/14/2021 12:31 pm

    Quoting just4funinMT20:
    Sorry to hear this. I know of many people, friends and acquaintances, who have fought this awful disease. Some beat it, some don't.
Yes I do too. My 2 best friends and I have all been through it and each of us had different types.

Stimulate my mind and let’s see what happens 😊.
Lest We Forget


sexyldy1000 61F  
9360 posts
10/14/2021 12:33 pm

    Quoting just4funinMT20:
    Brain cancer is particularly bad. I do know of some new treatment that is just around the corner, but it has yet to be approved.
Yes it’s one of the most difficult. My uncle had melanoma and died from brain cancer. My friend started radiation treatments this week. Thank you for stopping by and commenting.

Stimulate my mind and let’s see what happens 😊.
Lest We Forget


Fun4u3276 58M
58 posts
10/16/2021 12:14 pm

It seems to me that cancer is cancer and all is related in some way. That makes me question why we have Breast Cancer awareness, and other specific cancer fundraisers. Why not just have Cancer awareness and benefit all cancer patients? I've long wondered that.


sexyldy1000 61F  
9360 posts
10/16/2021 5:30 pm

    Quoting Fun4u3276:
    It seems to me that cancer is cancer and all is related in some way. That makes me question why we have Breast Cancer awareness, and other specific cancer fundraisers. Why not just have Cancer awareness and benefit all cancer patients? I've long wondered that.
I understand your point. A major fundraising event here has changed its name to ‘the weekend to end all cancers’. Thank you for stopping by and commenting.

Stimulate my mind and let’s see what happens 😊.
Lest We Forget


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