I am basically easy going and on the quiet side (I'm a good listener) but I don't get lost in a crowd. I like being experimental and I am often very aggressive, although I like my partner to be sometimes, too. My partner claims I am an exhibitionist. He is like me in many ways but he prefers to watch. He has made foreplay into an art. His perality is very self-assured, but not the least bit arrogant. He's the kind of per that you feel very secure being around. He also has a great sense of humor.

My Ideal Person We are looking to add a woman or couple (man and woman)or a couple (2 women) into our fun. I have had some experence in this but I am looking for more, but he has been in menage a trois relationships many times before. He is willing to have sex with both women, but it isn't necessarily a given. As I said before, he likes to watch (and I'm the exhibitionist)! We would want a bi-gay woman/couple with biwoman that is more interested in spending the time with me rather than him. He does like to watch sometimes and hold a camera and again that has to be OK with all parties. We love to role play also. We have done other things also, and I love to dressup and he loves silk and satin. Although I am 51,friends say I look like I am in my early to mid 40s, he also looks about 50. We respect all limitations and are open to suggestions. Have entertained the possability of light bondage, erotic photo shoots, most f/f interaction and even some light f/f play wrestling. We have some fetishes and are open to others. We are real and will exchange pictures but like to phone verify after a couple of emails. We would like to meet for drinks or coffee the first time to make sure everyone clicks. Our most important thing is this has to be fun for everyone involved.