lets see, I have been single now for almost 3 years, Im about as laid back,open minded, and loyal as they come. Im brutally honest even if its detrimental to myself so I wont lie to you, cheat on you, or steal from you. I have ADD and kind of an introvert. 100% a pleaser, Im only happy if im making others happy, i work with the homeless when I can. I just recently lost my mother to cancer and followed that up by having a stroke at 39, but im alive and cant complain. I try to make the best out of what is handed to me in all aspects of life because i believe that energy doesnt just disperse, it has to go somewhere, so what you put out is what others take it. I dont do drama or negativity, i dont have room for any of that in my life nor will i entertain/feed it. I am very sexual by nature, it tends to be whats on my mind the majority of the time lol I enjoy foreplay just as much as sex itself. I dont do quickies normally, i prefer long all day/night sessions but realize thats not always possibly and just might not be someone elses thing. I am very open when it comes to sex, i dont judge and like to help others fulfill their needs/desires. My only limits are blood and filth but outside of that im pretty open to most things. I only enjoy sex if the other person is enjoying it too and i would rather get them off and know they get what they needed even if i dont get off in the end. sry for the novel, if there is anything else youd like to know i am an open book so just ask