Good conversation leads to good sex. Without it, all is usually lost. Not picky about the subject matter: be passionate, be curious, be willing to express real feelings and all will be great. I personally love science, medicine, circus fitness and how the body works, dogs, bees, chickens, gardens, books, kayaking, spinning yarn, pottery, meditation, the search for meaning...you know, the basics :).

My Ideal Person I'm looking for someone who interests me both in and out of bed. I'm a well-educated girl, so this means intelligent conversation, well-thought-out opinions, and emails/profiles that are basically spelled correctly and use good grammar. I know, this is elitist and shallow on some level, but this is me. I don't want to see cock shots, or have you tell me how good you are in bed... but if you know who Anais is, that would help. Also, despite the fact that I am married, I am happily married with a husband who knows what I do, so I'm not really looking for a discreet (nor a "discrete"...lol) relationship full of sneaking and the potential to be chased by your angry wife with a cleaver. So if you're smart, funny, original, interesting and not attached to someone you'll be cheating on by meeting me, please drop me a line -- and make it something unique if you can.