Sorry, all the smart, handsome, rich, mentally stable guys with a heart of gold are taken. So you get me HA HA ! No really, while you’re waiting for your white knight... maybe we can go catch a movie or have dinner and drinks. I would like to find a mate to share life’s many twists and turns, to build a life offering adventure, exploration, and fulfillment of individual and shared dreams. Along the way I look forward to meeting friends and acquaintances who may not be right for me, nor I for them; but what the heck, it’s all part of life’s experiences. I'm trying to make life a bit more interesting and meet new friends along the way. I treat people as I want to be treated. I learned the Golden Rule in the second grade and still live by it. I'm rather old fashioned and romantic at heart. I like to open doors for ladies, buy them flowers, do special little things for them, call them during the day, and pay for the dates. Chances are that's not going to change, so I hope you like that. It's not that I don't consider ladies to be equals, I do. I just like to pamper them and don't see anything wrong with that. I love the beauty of nature and the serenity of escaping into the woods, the sea, the mountains; this is where I see and feel my "God". I have a strong sense of who I am, but am also very open to seeking greater self awareness. John Lennon gave us this line: "Life is what happens while you're busy making other plans." John seemingly had been through a lot and seemed to settle down in life just as it ended. Abruptly. So living in the present is the only way I can see enjoying life's fullness. My past was abruptly taken away from me but I have no plans to go back for it. I will miss it but know the only way to go on is to let it go. I like campfires, camping in state parks or forests or in the boundary waters. In the winter I enjoy being outside. I have gotten away from ice fishing, skiing, and other outdoor winter activities, but I want to go back to them. I golf (I get my money’s worth out of a round), bike ride (always a new trail to explore), a good game of cribbage or enjoying a good book in front of a warm fire. I like the theatre, local and national productions. I love to see what’s around the next corner, exploring. I like rock, jazz, and most oldies. is not included in my definition of music. I'm not much into the bar scene but like a drink now and then. I enjoy going barefoot, holding hands, cuddling, touching, kissing and quiet tender moments. I like to travel. I am looking forward to visiting to warm tropical climates as well as Old World attractions. I am very open and giving. I am an honest, active, humorous, affectionate, generous, slightly introverted man looking for a woman to complement me. I seek a partner who balances my personality. I will provide you with substance and intensity. In return, I look for someone who will bring beauty and sensuality to our relationship. I am not interested in one night stands; nor, do I plan on rushing into a quick infatuation. I would first like to build a solid foundation of trust and understanding. While we’re building our relationship, I hope to travel and explore with you. I love to listen to other people’s experiences that differ from my own. I see us ending our work days with long talks, excellent meals and intimacy. Weekends and vacations will be filled with our mutual exploration of surroundings both near and exotic. I am not wealthy, but financially secure. To me, life experiences are most important; not collecting things! There are a number of qualities that I value in others and work to cultivate in myself. In that list you'll find loyalty and faithfulness (I truly have never cheated on anyone in my entire life and will never start), a good sense of humor, playfulness, kindness (not just towards each other, but to everyone), patience, and the desire to always think young and continue enjoying life and living it to the fullest. Don't let this description fool you, though. I'm not all that serious in real life. In many ways I consider life a joke that God is playing on us and I find a lot of humor in the absurdity that is day to day existence. If we can't laugh with each other about this curious life and our own foibles then we're going to be Sad Sacks indeed. I love to joke and cut up and I hope you do as well. I know there are good people everywhere. I looking forward to finding that special one.

My Ideal Person I am used to someone intelligent enough to discuss a wide variety of issues based on the subject matter alone. I desire a youthful and fun-loving woman who is sweet, with a decent amount of energy. One who wants to laugh a great deal, and be thoroughly romanced and loved while living in peace and harmony. You know...someone who can also enjoy the simple things in life.

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I like getting to know new friends. She would be outgoing/sociable, friendly, honest, attractive, affectionate and a nonsmoker. Humor is a must. It is good to laugh together and enjoy each others company. Honest, straightforward communication is essential. Sensuality - like touching and candles and massage - is important. It is especially nice to share the good times with a companion who also has a good sense of humor, is intelligent and is able to relax, cuddle and forget the rest of the world.
I am seeking a person with whom I can share and enjoy pleasures and passions. I am looking for a passsionate, curious, creative, woman who is willing to share their passion and their joys. I am not seeking a one-night-stand, but a relationship which will have friendship and a mutual fondness. It should be based on friendship, kindness, respect and the shared desire to please each other.
Honesty, integrity, emotional maturity and openness are virtues I look for in a person and virtues I expect from myself. I'd like to think I'm sharp, witty, really enjoy a great conversation and getting to know someone. I’d like to share my time with a woman that will challenge my wit, test my intelligence and laugh with me. I’m a hopeless romantic, a great kisser and I strongly believe that chivalry is not dead!
Of course physical attraction is a must, that's part of the 'click, click' among other things like personality, a great disposition on life and a sense of adventure. Ultimately I want to share happiness, just like you do.
Don't consider me a match if you like to play games because I won't. I'll always be honest with you and forthright even when it's not easy and I'd appreciate it if you'd do the same. Same with honesty and trust. You'll find me honest even when it's not easy and that will tell you that I'm trustworthy. Please do the same.
If you've read this far and still have interest, then by all means contact me. I'm not so old-fashioned that I don't appreciate it when a lady makes the first (or any) move. Somebody has to start something or we'll never get to know each other. If I haven't contacted you on my own then don't hesitate to take the initiative.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A moving vehicle (i.e. car), An airplane, A remote wilderness spot

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Mutual Masturbation, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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