We are a happily married couple (24+ years) that plays nice with others. We are both social workers and our are grown. Spirituality is important in our lives. If you get to know us I'm sure you'll find us to be interesting, open-minded and grounded. Adding other people to our sex life is not something we "need" to be happy. Our marriage is very strong and is based on a deep appreciation and respect for one another. We also appreciate playful sex with warm,intelligent partners who are mature enough to be sincere, affectionate and easy going. We are fit, attractive and are in our early 50s. Wife: Right now I am looking for a woman to fuck my husband! Or a couple to play with both of us. We have a very nice male addition to our play, but my husband never seems to get a woman (other than me :) ) to play with! I love pleasing two men at once, and I absolutely love having two (better yet three!:)) cocks inside of me at the same time. (For my 40th birthday my husband set up a 4 way with myself and 3 men. I couldn't walk for a few days.) My favorite pastime is sucking cock. Seriously. I love it and "all my good friends say I'm very good at it." :) We'd also love to have a couple that's compatible (some of our fondest memories of sex-play have been with couples we got to know and spend time with. Hubby: I'd love to find a couple or single woman to add to our fun times. Swapping is fine, also trying to see what 4 bodies can make. I love oral sex, all around- give and get. Licking my cock will drive me crazy. If I'm fucking you from behind you might try reaching back to grab and pull my balls (thanks, ed m., who used to fuck my wife, for that bit). I like 1:1, 2:1, 2:2, well, you name it. I enjoy giving and receiving pleasure. IMPORTANT NOTE: when it asks about anal sex being a preference- Wife enjoys this- Husband is DEFINITELY "exit only". Of course we are clean,std free, and looking for the same. I think we're also pretty smart and funny and would like to meet a person or couple who we enjoy personally as well. We're not looking for a bunch or people to play with- ideally we can find the right match with one person/couple and meet 1-2x a month. We're open to other options, though, and would want to honor your desires as much as our own. Husband- First, I'll testify that my wife is an excellent cocksucker. For myself, I also enjoy giving and receiving oral gratification. I love to fuck and I love to see my wife having a good time. I like to fuck her while she sucks off another guy (or vice versa). I have also enjoyed positions where she can be fucked and have her clit licked at the same time (e.g. picture a cock fucking her doggie style while she sucks the cock of the man beneath her who is also licking her...for one idea). Group sex with 3 or more provides an opportunity for exploration not available in your typical "swap". This doesn't mean I don't sometimes just enjoy watching her- I'm easy to please. The best part would be to find people who are friendly, affectionate and fun to be with even when fully clothed. Currently we are less interested in single men as Julie has a guy she fucks regularly (sometimes with me added). Couples or single women are our priority right now. We are "Gold" members for a month. Thought we'd try it out after not getting much as "standard". Come on, people, let's play!

My Ideal Person We'd like to meet a woman or couple who want to join us for good (FANTASTIC) times, on a regular basis.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
kindness, lack of drama

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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